Nelson Nash has dropped just about everything important to him to tend to his ill wife, Nikki, who is being treated for cancer.

Lives put on hold

 

Nikki Nash is undergoing an extensive chemotherapy program to combat acute lymphoblastic leukemia, normally only present in children with a peak incidence at age three.

The Nashes, Nelson and Nikki, 22, face the financial, emotional and very physical challenge of treating Nikki’s illness. They were married on Nov. 16, 2007, in San Diego, and Nikki was diagnosed four months after their marriage, which forced them both to pull out of Brigham Young University in Rexsburg, Idaho, and move into Ronald McDonald House in Salt Lake City while she undergoes treatment for the rare disease.

Nelson is the son of Laura and Kenneth Nash, a local dentist and bishop of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He has two brothers, Stanford and Chandler, and two sisters, Chelsea and Eliza. Nelson also is active in the Mormon church and served a two-year mission in New Hampshire.

 

Nikki was two semesters away from a degree in health science. As part of earning her degree, Nikki was working in a rehabilitation hospital in Rexburg. She went into the hospital to have a bulge in her spine examined and removed, and instead was diagnosed with childhood leukemia, even though she is an adult. The bulge in her spine has taken a back burner to the more threatening disease of leukemia, and she has suffered with bad reactions to her chemotherapy, and lost her hair and muscle mass. She has required special, more extensive treatment because the form of her cancer is so rare in adults, the couple said.

“Her spleen and her liver were so distended that they fractured two of her ribs,” Nelson said. Originally, the doctors thought this was caused by the bulge in her spine, but later discovered that the organs were grossly enlarged because she was so sick internally from the cancer.

 

The good news, if any, is that according to the National Institute of Cancer, 60 to 80 percent of adults with the disease can be expected to attain complete remission status following appropriate induction therapy.

Longtime family friend Karen Jones and her husband Rob, of Santa Ynez, are putting together several fundraisers to help the couple with their expenses.

“Nikki and Nelson are the coolest young couple I know,” said Karen. “They were married last November, only to discover a few months later that Nikki had acute lymphoblastic leukemia. They both had to drop out of college and quit their jobs to devote all their time and attention to fight this extremely serious and life threatening disease,” writes Karen in a blog on the family website, http://syvjonesfamily.com.

 

“I met him when he was in sixth grade, and I have watched Nelson grow up, from a regular guy, kind of a jock, into a great husband and great caregiver, head and shoulders above his peers. He even said to his mother, Lauren, that he was so glad that Nikki was diagnosed with cancer after they got married, because otherwise she never would have married him,” said Jones. “I decided to ask for help for them, because these are not the kind of people that advertise their problems.”

 

Those who know the Joneses know that Karen promotes musicians and friends, and hosts jams for musicians at their home on Edison Street in Santa Ynez. Many folks came to the “band-jam” at their home on Old Santa Ynez Day and may have heard a performance by Elizabethan Report, a Provo, Utah, band that puts on a raucous act. Elizabethan Report has offered to perform at SOhO Nightclub in Santa Barbara on Oct. 2 at 8 p.m., to benefit Nikki and Nelson. SOhO is located at 1221 State Street in Santa Barbara, and is a dinner theater. Phone (805) 962-7776 for reservations.

 

The second fundraiser planned is a family-style picnic on Oct. 4. Jones can be telephoned at (805) 688-7786 or contact the Jones’ website, http://www.syvjoneshouse.com. To write to the couple directly, send cards or letters to: Nikki and Nelson Nash, 328 White Oak Road, Santa Ynez, CA 93460.